Twin Flame Stages: Runner Separation Stage
The Runner Separation Stage is an authentic and divinely created stage because it helps the twin flames prepare for reunion
Are you feeling sick with worry because your twin flame is running away and you are feeling stuck in the separation stage without knowing what you can do about it? Well, I am here to tell you to stop worrying - "Don't worry, be happy!" This could not be more true when it comes to the twin flame separation stages.
Love cannot thrive or manifest to us if we are constantly in a lower vibration of fear. It actually delays reunion overall. Also, worrying is counterproductive and futile because it gets us no-where other than locked in our heads going round in circles! But the whole point of this separation stage is to GET OUT OF YOUR HEAD and into your HEART.
Your heart is the direct gateway to your soul and when people say follow your heart, really they are saying follow your soul's wisdom. The soul is the real and infinite you, but your mind and your ego with all it's worries is not going to last. All the ego knows is what it's been programmed to believe from this lifetime alone. The soul knows the truth of soul, of the universe, of God, of ONENESS and connection. The soul is infinite.
When you are excessively worrying you are simply shutting yourself off from your divine wisdom. The whole point of the separation stages is for you to come into your wisdom, your unity consciousness.
Cultivate your inner joy, peace and love and you will be working through the separation stage the right way as intended by the universe
Twin flames nearly always enter the runner or separation stage. Twin flames even go through the separation even if neither of them are running. What do I mean by this? Well, both twins could actively be working on their healing and awakening, consciously bringing themselves into alignment with their higher selves, their divine soul love. So why do they have to go through a stage of separation in order to achieve that? Well the physical separation acts to motivate the twins to work harder to create reunion, to embody their divine love and light which then anchors this higher vibration to the Earth. The separation stage isn't always caused by a runner twin.
In both cases of either a runner or just the two working on their healing individually, the separation stage is always intended. It forces the twin flames to get to know their real selves, their soul. And it forces them to communicate in their true way, through soul energy exchange or telepathy. This way, we get to know our twin flame on the real soul level too beyond surface 3D levels.
The separation stage serves as a removal of physical distractions. If the twin flames were to unite too soon then they would likely have not delved very deeply into their own souls in order to embody their true nature and anchor that vibration to this Earth.
You see twin flames choose to come here to help the planet through this anchoring of their energies. The more time you spend apart physically, the more opportunity to grow and get to know yourselves better. This has to be the way. Many twin flames try to skip important stages including the separation runner stage because they are trying to feel wholeness by looking outside of themselves. But this implies that they do not know yet how to find that wholeness within. Twin flames can only unite when they have both reached wholeness and 5D vibration individually first. This is the opportunity that the physical separation stage offers.
In truth there is no separation between twin flames
Separation is a 3D illusion. Our skin is not who we are, our brain is not who we are, our job is not who we are, our accomplishments, mistakes, personality do not define us. All of these things die along with our bodies. Who we truly are is that which lives forever, our soul. Our bodies may be separate, but our true identity is never separated from our twin flames. It's hard to explain in words but when you actually go through it you can feel it beyond words. Words cannot describe many things because words are full of limitations just like our 3D ideas about what is real and what isn't. A lot of the time what we taught is real isn't and what we are taught is unreal is.
The most real parts of ourselves are our immortal souls. Our hearts are the gateway to our souls, our higher self, our life path and that is why it is vital that we are in touch with our hearts, our feelings, the gateway to our Divine Path to Heaven on Earth.
Many twin flames go through the runner separation stage because either one (but most often both) are still caught up in some illusions that are blinding them from themselves. Twin flames go through the separation stages because they don't know who they are yet, their true identity of soul amongst all the illusions of ego - identity. Twin flames must have a time of separation in order to truly dig deep to find answers, dig deep to try and find wholeness and in doing so they find themselves, they find they are already whole and always have been. This is the purpose of the twin flame separation stages.
It's important to use the separation stage as intended by the universe...
So many twin flames unknowingly sabotage their own efforts to move out of the separation runner stage by putting the focus too much on what the other is or isn't doing. This is giving away our power and believing we have no control over the outcomes whatsoever. It is true that if we are not destined to be together physically with this person then it cannot happen, but many of us ARE destined for reunion but delay it by keep going in circles.
This is why it is vital that we truly understand what we are supposed to be doing with our healing, surrendering and awakening as we go through this stage in our connection. Like many, I was like a lost soul wandering around aimlessly in circles and getting stuck in frustration because my twin and I weren't getting anywhere whilst we were locked in this state.
Firstly, I didn't realise the separation runner stages were part of the intended equation - I just though he was running and it was all going wrong. I clung onto him because I was so scared I was losing him and then I'd have to spend the rest of my life beating myself up about what could have been if we'd done it right. So I tried my hardest to make things work and love him as hard as I could and I was absolutely SHOCKED when I discovered that this made him rather faster and harder!! I felt so rejected and humiliated.
At the time I had no idea what I was doing until I really began listening to the truth about what I had to do to reach reunion
But finally I did start listening to my guides who had always been trying to give me messages but I had been too caught up in fear and panic to be able to sit still for long enough to hear them.
I was astounded at the insights they gave me and at first I was hesitant to put them to work because I'd got COMFORTABLE in doing things my way, the wrong way! You see, us women are taught all wrong how to love me and get them to open up to us. We love them the way we want to be loved and it simply does not work because the divine masculine has been severely repressed in our society.
My guides gave me the true knowledge I needed to be able to understand my male twin flame on a much deeper level so I could really reach him and comfort him in all the ways I had tried to before but had miserably failed at. My intentions were good but my methods we all backwards. When I learned to love my male twin flame in the right way where he would be truly supported too, then it was amazing how quickly our connection turned around and he came back to me willingly and he even wanted to open up and work through his issues as I worked on my own.
I want to give you the true answers on how to really communicate with your masculine twin flame effectively so he will feel comfortable opening up to you and coming closer
It's easier than you think and once you truly understand what you need to be doing you will be able to move through these separation runner stages much more quickly and easily. It's about flowing in a way that works for both of your growth. Too much of the feminine forcing things her way brings things out of balance and he counteracts by rebelling. It's about honouring both of your needs, the divine masculine and feminine ways of connecting in your twin flame love.
I want to give you the directions to make reunion possible for you and your twin flame. I hate to see so many people struggling, going round and round in circles and feeling lost, confused and frustrated. That was me for so long. I want to help as many twins as possible to move through these separation stages swiftly and naturally to come to better understanding, deeper connection and reunion with each other. It is entirely possible. There was a time when this love always felt just out of reach, but all that changed. I learned how to BELIEVE and things transformed so quickly into such deep and profound connection and COMMUNICATION.
I have been divinely guided to help twin flames reach reunion through writing an in depth E-Book about everything I discuss here and so much more. I am so pleased that I have already helped so many and I am constantly receiving emails from my readers who tell me that my E-Books are truly life changing. So many people have finally found the solutions, the true path to reunion.
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Thank you and blessings,