One of the biggest myths about the runner and chaser twin flames is that it's just the runner twin that runs. And there's been many articles debunking this myth, but still, it seems the message hasn't quite sunk in for everyone. This is because it can APPEAR on the surface that it's just the "runner twin flame" running, but the truth of the dynamic is found by looking deeper beneath the obvious layers of what we can see with our eyes. After all, that's what the twin flame connection is all about - uncovering the illusions and digging deeper to uncover the truth we can only see by reading between the lines.
It really is true - it's not just some fancy theory that sounds good on paper but we ultimately allow to go over our heads - twin flames are mirrors of each other. I'm sure you've heard this MANY times before. But it is VITAL to really grasp this as truth on all levels of your being. If your twin flame is running, then you are too. It may not APPEAR that way on the surface, but deep down both are running. Sometimes it's not even running at all - it's just you both need to "prepare" more before healing occurs within each twin flame so they naturally flow into harmony on all levels inside and outside.
But what are they running from what exactly? Or perhaps simply struggling to integrate... The "runner" twin flame may run from several of these or all of them... a fear of rejection and abandonment, their own self-rejection, the uncertainty of stepping beyond the veil of illusion into the unknown, the intense emotional wounds which come up for purging, judgement from others if they were to step into their authentic soul truth, the fear of needing someone so much and it not working out etc etc. It all boils down to them working on loving themselves more from within so they aren't so caught up on what might happen "on the outside".
But the chaser is running from (or simply in a stage of healing these issues) a fear of rejection also hence why trying to force commitment from the runner to prove they are worthy of such love and devotion. Chasers are also running from their own self-rejection by projecting that into the connection and wanting the runner to fix that wound for them by turning around and committing.
It's running from doing the work to love ourselves most likely because of the illusion that love needs to come from outside of ourselves. The chaser also runs from the uncertainty of stepping beyond the veil of illusion into the unknown because they are still holding on tightly to the illusion that another can fix them and heal them. The realm of the unknown that they are avoiding is looking inwards and learning to love themselves which can seem difficult and daunting. Running towards union with the twin (chasing) is trying to take the short cut to avoid going inwards, hence running from themselves. But there is no such thing as taking shortcuts in the twin flame connection.
The chaser twin flame runs from the intense emotional wounds which come up for purging because they believe deep down it's their "lack of worth" which makes the runner run and so they try their hardest to force commitment to avoiding facing that internal pain (which is often a projection from childhood too). The same goes for the chaser running from stepping into their authentic soul truth because they are trying to avoid the triggering and healing that is required for them to align with their soul.
So it's not just the runner twin flame that runs. Both are running from their pain, either seeking validation that they are lovable (looking for proof against their belief that they are not) or avoiding the possibility that they "are not lovable" (running from confirmation from the resentful chaser that they "aren't good enough").
Generally speaking, the feminine (often, but not always, the chaser) has an intense fear of not RECEIVING love and thus feeling worthless so they chase love down at any cost. They are full of the resentments of not receiving love in childhood and in past romantic connections. And generally the masculine (most likely the "runner" labelled one) has an intense fear that what they have to GIVE is not going to be received with appreciation and acceptance thus risking feeling worthless. So they run from any possibility of being judged / criticized / blamed / rejected by the feminine as not having anything of worth to provide.
Both are running from rejection, it just looks the opposite when you focus on the surface level.
If you would like deeper insights into the runner / chaser dynamic, how most of it is a counterproductive myth which keeps us blocked and how to REALLY come into harmony and union, then check out my AudioBook How to Heal the Runner Stage and Unite
How to Heal the Runner Stage and Unite Audiobook (Mp3 Download)
Are You Subconsciously Pushing Your Twin Flame Away Through Limiting Thoughts and Beliefs?
The Law of Attraction (LOA) plays a MAJOR role in twin flame connections and therefore it is vital to CONSCIOUSLY work with these laws in order to reach reunion. Without a clear understanding of how the LOA is working in your connection you are seriously jeopardizing the possibility of reunion.
The LOA yields you much greater power than your realise - your thoughts create your reality and so you are either bringing reunion closer or pushing it further away. Many twin flames have no idea just how much power they have in this connection to make or break it.
Often there is a belief that the connection and reunion is totally out of our hands and we just have to wait for the universe to deliver our reunion at the right time. You are MEANT to use this power (the power of Love, not manipulation) in order to come back to your true nature as a Creator.
Your thoughts Create your reality and so it's extremely important to make sure your thoughts are positive and supportive of reunion rather than subconsciously derailing it
The biggest problem is the subconscious mind where we store all the beliefs we've collected throughout our life, often very limiting and 3D based which block us from aligning with our Higher Truth, with the Love Vibration required for reunion on all levels.
These limiting beliefs that are often buried deep in the subconscious shape our entire life, they manifest back to us reflections of those beliefs.
If Your Are Thinking All Sorts of Negative Things About Your Twin Flame, The Twin Flame Connection, Yourself or Love, Then You Are Blocking The Love From Coming To You - You Are REPELLING Your Twin!
If you are full of doubts, then those too are fear-based and fear directly blocks love and keeps us going in circles, attracting situations and experiences to ourselves that we don't want!
Luckily we CAN change our thoughts, we CAN reprogram our subconscious mind.
I Will Show You Why Your Twin Flame Is Running and How You Can Get Him to Come Back
When you clear out the illusions, the limiting beliefs then you become more of your TRUTH, more of your SOUL. In order to manifest your soul as a reflection of yourself then you must become more the embodiment of your soul truth. I will show you how. I will show you how to release your fears that are directly blocking reunion and show you how to truly heal yourself and surrender then see your twin flame return to you.
When You Become The Embodiment of Your Love and Light, You Become Extremely Magnetic
This is the truth of the Law of Attraction! It could be called the Law of Love because the more you heal yourself to embody your soul truth, the more you open yourself up to RECEIVING love.
In this Audio Book I explain exactly how to reprogram your thoughts to align yourself and your twin with reunion so it can happen on all levels including the physical.
If you are serious about reuniting with your Twin Flame on all levels then let me show you how.
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