It takes a lot of inner wisdom to know where the line is between having faith and having blind faith when it comes to twin flame runners. What if your faith begins to crack and you start thinking it's just blind faith? What if you start to think that your once bullet-proof belief was just blindness? That you are just holding onto dreams?
We've all been there, sometimes over and over again. We feel our hearts pulling us towards this person, towards this experience, but then we see no physical evidence of anything changing. Are we just being foolish? Should I hold on and just release expectations of a relationship? What do you do in this situation?
Well, this is a test my friend. And not always a test of faith, but sometimes a test of self-love. What you need to ask yourself in this situation is: "Is this situation helping me or hindering me? Am I growing or stagnating? Do I feel liberated or trapped? Is this situation bringing something to my life or taking something away?"
You also need to ask yourself honestly: "If I knew right now that this would never turn into a physical relationship, would I still hold on?" It's perfectly okay to want to move on if the physical is what you are looking for. There are many who say you should love everyone unconditionally and think that means holding out for their twin and not allowing themselves to experience anything else. BUT, there is a difference between unconditional love and putting your life on hold. You can still love someone unconditionally and at the same time move on when you realise a relationship isn't going to happen.
But then there are many who worry that if they move on then they might miss out if their twin was eventually going to turn around and be with them. Be honest with yourself. Does your twin show any signs of turning around and committing to you? How long have you been waiting already and seen no change? Could you ever consider that this MAY not be your life partner?
These connections are trying to help us let go of fear. Many people hold on because they are afraid to face the possibility of this person not being their life partner after all. I am sorry if this is making you uncomfortable reading this, but this is a possibility your soul wants you to consider. It wants you to be strong enough to know that could be a possibility. If the thought of that fills you with great panic and dread, then it's a clear sign you need to work on being okay no matter what happens, because whatever will happen will be for your highest good.
This is what truly surrendering means. If you have the strength to accept that there may be a possibility that you may not end up with this person, then you can release the fear which is blocking the truth from manifesting. Whether you will end up with this person or not, this possibility needs to be explored and accepted so then we can love without fear. This allows our highest good to manifest. Fear only keeps us stuck and reunion or another possibility for your highest good cannot manifest in such a low vibration. Dare to allow the possibility that you might not end up with this person romantically. When you know you can still be happy within with that possibility in your consciousness, then you know you are healing and becoming stronger. This is what the soul needs to grow and ascend further into soul consciousness and higher vibration.
~Love and Light~