For some this will mean aligning with their twin flame and uniting, for others it will be aligning with the truth which may make you discover this person isn’t your twin flame. Either way, it’s best to let life unfold as it’s intended to and that releasing the desire to try and control outcomes. We need to simply let life flow naturally. Life is meant to be simple after all. When things are too complicated then it’s a sign that it’s not for our highest good. What is meant to be for us will come into our lives naturally and no amount of trying to control it will change the outcome of what is predestined.
So how do we release control and simply let life unfold naturally? There are several steps:
If your mind is constantly going a mile a minute then you are not leaving yourself enough room for your intuition to surface. You are over-analysing and this causes stress and anxiety. These all lead to a lowering of your vibration which blocks the free flow of life from unfolding naturally. Everything becomes a battle, everything seems complicated and difficult. Emotions and energy cords with our twin flame become tangled.
However, when we truly flow and ACCEPT what is and that we cannot control outcomes, then life becomes easier, we are more flexible and we have more faith. We allow life to happen as it should and this allows our highest good to unfold. TRUST that whatever happens is for your highest good! It truly is, even if it might go against what you *think* is for your highest good at the time. Can you see how many times something didn’t work out the way you expected but then later you were glad it didn’t because it made room for something better to come along, or you just knew it had to be that way for your life to unfold in other ways.
Give up worrying
This ties into having faith. The more you worry and stress, the more you are fighting the natural flow of life. Anxiety can lead to desperation and reacting negatively to your twin flame out of fear. Again, all this does is lower your vibrations which blocks love from flowing within you and to you. You need to liberate yourself from fear. If this is an area you struggle with then suggest reading up on the subject of fear and how to overcome it.
Stop Trying to Hold The Connection Together if your Twin Flame is Putting No Effort In
If you are worried that your connection will fall apart if you stop doing all the work (while your twin does very little or nothing) then this is a clear sign that you are trying to control outcomes and are not accepting the reality of the situation. The scariest thing to do, but you must do, is let it all go. I don’t mean getting ego involved and stating “it’s over” or anything like that which sounds final. But instead I am suggesting you take the distance necessary to test if it WILL fall apart the second you stop rowing. This is a sure fire way of testing if you are the only one rowing the boat or if this person is willing to take over the rowing for a while to keep things moving forward. If everything just stops then this person is not for your highest good.
This is what it means when they say “If you love someone set them free. If they come back then they are your forever and if they don’t then it was never meant to be”. Have the strength to be honest with yourself and discover the true intentions of this person.