A kind male twin flame runner has given us his story here to try and help us understand:
"There were a number of reasons why I decided to run. Firstly, I had a tendency to sabotage myself. I was always afraid of good things happening in my life because deep down I didn’t think I deserved it. I felt that something bad would always follow to cancel out any good that befell me. Secondly, I was terrified and confused by the way our relationship was always so in sync. Finally I had ego and self-esteem issues that were unresolved. Though I knew that self-esteem was a key problem in Twin Flame relationships, I still pushed her away, telling myself that it was the best decision for us.
My running away didn’t put her off. She tried to contact me every day; emails, voicemail, you name it. I never got in touch with her though; my ego and fears wouldn’t let me. Don’t get me wrong, I was always happy to know that she still loved me and would never give up on me, but this would only serve to remind me of my flaws and defects. She on the other hand seemed to have let go of her ego, and would never make me feel guilty when I refused to contact her.
Initially, I had not planned on ignoring her forever, but things sort of spiralled out of control. I wasn’t happy and my continuing decision not to get back in touch led me to believe that the relationship couldn’t be salvaged anymore. How would I even begin to explain myself and my inability to reach out to her? At the time, I hadn’t realised that this was all a product of my pride and ego sabotaging me and making me doubt myself. Her love for me was genuine, but the walls I had erected around me to protect me from my fears couldn’t allow me to see it.
Three months without any contact engrossed me in great anguish, but I knew that her pain was much, much worse. My mental state calmed down immensely when she finally sent me an email after those three months. It was at that moment when everything opened up and became illuminated; I had to go back to her, or we would both die. I contacted her, explaining everything. To my surprise, she understood and didn’t judge me. It turns out all my fears were unwarranted, and I realised how far I had gone close to the edge. All the negativity in the world cannot stop you and your twin from being together. You have to banish the self doubt and self-loathing that will hurt your relationships. We learn from our experiences, and embrace the lessons that make us who we are."
My own twin flame used to be the runner before I learnt how to best help him stop running and return to me. The more I chased him, the more he would run away. I felt our connection slipping through my fingers as every day passed. My life was a rollercoaster of panic, confusion, frustration and devastation. The love we shared was so profound that it frightened him until I learnt how to best help him overcome those fears. My spirit guides are to thank for that!
I had been running in circles and getting absolutely nowhere with my twin flame for so long that I completely burnt myself out. I was shattered, helpless, defeated, or so I thought... It was when I had reached that point and finally given up on trying to control everything that my spirit guides had room to reach me. For the first time ever I was fully willing to follow their guidance and they taught me so much I had never even considered. They taught me how to overcome every obstacle that had once seemed impossible to overcome and I was shocked at how quickly my twin flame came back to me. They taught me where I was going wrong when I had mistakenly thought I'd been doing everything right. Like I truly believed I was loving my twin flame unconditionally but in truth I was a little confused about what that really meant and that confusion had been a big block for us.
Finally, where as reunion had once seemed so illusive and almost impossible, it now became achievable as the blocks dissolved more and more everyday when I was following the techniques and wisdom of my guides.
Now I want to help you achieve the blissful and utterly amazing reunion with your twin flame runner too. I want to be the loving guide along your path, shining light into the dark areas of confusion and struggle which have been blocking your reunion with your twin flame. I don't want you to waste precious years of your life like I did going in circles whilst I thought I was doing everything right and it was just my twin not getting it! I want you to be able to sail through the lessons, the healing, the stages in perfect understanding and ease. It is possible!
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