Most of our society and even ourselves at one time resembled the walking dead. You know, the old 3D paradigm where people are living almost completely unconsciously, going through the motions of what society has taught that life is all about, chasing the latest material or external thing we think will finally make us happy and fulfilled. But if we are not living a mindful and loving life, then we are not truly living. If we are not in consciousness that we are all God, that we are all one and we are all love, then we are still blinded by old 3D paradigms.
Many people want to skip lessons and get to the 5th floor where reunion with their twin flame occurs, but they want to take the elevator instead of the stairs. The elevator requires no effort to get to the top, whilst the stairs require work and determination to carry on going until you get to the top. The stairs also require them to stop off at the different levels before reaching the fifth floor.
For many, they blame their twin for running and not facing themselves, but the stayer is also unwilling to do the work. It's easier for them to point the blame at the other rather than admitting they too are running from themselves and just expecting everything to be handed to them on a plate. But they wouldn't actually want that if that happened. If they haven't done their inner work and the twin is given to them on a silver platter, then they would only reflect a ton of problems. The work must be done, and done graciously with an understanding that the work is truly a GIFT. It is healing, transforming and strengthening.
Many people allow their egos to see only loss and what's missing in these connections. With this kind of ego thinking reunion cannot happen because it shows that one is still stuck in old 3D paradigms. When they stayer blames their runner for not being ready, they are really just placing the responsibility of their own happiness on the shoulders of the other. No amount of blaming, bitching or cursing is gunna change anything other than keep you stuck going in circles! It's time to get off the pedestal you've put yourself on and get real.
Again, thinking you are right and they are wrong is 3D paradigm. Everything is as it should be according to the divine plan. You are just exercising your free will to halt your own growth by distracting yourself from looking inwards by focussing outward and still believing something outside of yourself can bring you fulfilment - it can't. Until you understand that, you won't be uniting with your twin flame because it can't happen whilst you are still stuck in 3D.
It's time to stop focussing on everything you presume you don't have or that is supposedly lacking in this connection. It's time to turn a from scarcity thinking and self-pity and realise what great abundance you have through this connection! If you live in a scarcity mentality, then that is the world you will see around you. If you live in an abundant mentality, then you are giving the universe permission to give you MORE abundance. You cannot expect to receive more if you are not truly open or ready for it.
Scarcity thinking or abundance thinking is all about shifting your focus. You can choose to see abundance in the areas that you are currently seeing as scarcity and when you shift your thinking to abundance, then more will come to you.
Examples of Scarcity thinking in Twin Flame Connections
"My twin flame is running away from me" could now be shifted to, "My twin flame is giving me the distance I need to look within and discover more about myself, opening me up for the healing I need. This is all divinely orchestrated for mine and my twin flame's highest good."
"My twin flame is an asshole" could now be shifted to, "My twin flame is pushing my buttons so I can see how I have placed expectations upon him and are looking to him to fulfil me in the ways I must firstly fulfil myself" and "My twin flame is showing me how I need to love myself by setting healthy boundaries." Or in some cases, "The universe is trying to help me see that this person is not my twin flame, but nonetheless I have learned invaluable lessons from the connection and for that I am thankful."
"I can't be happy without my twin flame" could now be shifted to, "The universe is creating a physical separation so I can realise that I can be happy without a physical relationship and until I realise that, then I will continue to feel unhappy and unfulfilled.
There are many more examples that can be completely shifted into abundance thinking and in all honesty, the abundance answers are the truth!
Besides, twin flame connections provide us with so much to be thankful for. For example, they:
Brings us back to God
Brings us back to ourselves
Bring us back to the realisation that we are God and God is not separate from us
Brings us back to our guides and soul family who make us feel supported
Brings us back to our intuition
Brings us back to love
Brings us to life
I could go on!
It's all about how you choose the perceive life. If you are pessimistic then you are leaning to the 3D and you will remain blind until you choose to make the shift. In fact, this really doesn't have to be limited to the twin flame connection. This shift in thinking is required for all of life situations. You can choose to see the good in everything, the lessons in everything, the opportunities for growth, the love being offered to you from God. It really is that simple.