Fear. It's rigid. It's restrictive. It can eat you up and fill you with dread. It's always concerned with the future, of something bad we don't want to happen. It causes resistance to stepping into the future with out hearts open, vulnerable and beautiful.
When it comes to twin flames, all of this tension caused by the fear reflects between them, travelling through their shared energy, making both twins become rigid and blocked, their hearts closing instead of opening wide to self and each other.
Through the eyes of fear, the connection is seen as a life or death situation, always on the edge, never safe. Walls then go up to protect ourselves, all the while we are waiting for our twin to put their walls down first before we will, but they are reflecting us!!
For many twin flames there's no trust that wholeness can and must be created within. So much pressure is piled onto the connection, onto the other and onto ourselves because of the fear of abandonment. There's a misunderstanding that if something "goes wrong" then we will never be whole. But that's the whole point! To realise that wholeness can only come from within and then it will reflect outwards. Why fear losing something from your twin flame that they cannot give you themselves anyway?? The wholeness HAS to come from within, so no matter what happens between you, you will be perfectly whole and happy. They are a reflection of you. If you are abandoning yourself and not living in your truth because you are stuck in fear, then your twin will be forced to do the same.
Twin flames need flow, surrender, peace and an open heart to move forward and step into their reunion. But first they need to flow, surrender and open their hearts to all their inner pain that they have locked inside themselves for decades. It has to start from within first. Looking to the other is futile and time wasting. Love can only be released from it's prison and illusion of separation by shattering the walls of fear from within.
The twins therefore need a light-hearted approach. What do I mean by this? They need to stop seeing particular outcomes to mean a life or death situation. They need to stop being so rigid with fear because their twin flame can only reflect that back to them and they are stuck in a standoff, both with walls up and refusing to budge until the other one does (they are you so will only move forward when you do!)
Twin flames need to trust God. They need to trust their intuition which knows the love is real and that separation does not exist. They need to lighten up so their energies can also rise up into higher vibrations. The dense vibrations of fear only block love and prevent reunion with self, God and each other. A light-hearted approach takes the pressure off both twins. There's no longer this dreaded illusion that we have to live up to about doing everything right and being perfect. When we lighten up, we allow truth to flow through us and we can then trust our intuition more keenly which leads us further into our truth.
When we lighten up, we allow love to flow through us and this brings joy, peace and HEALING. When we lighten up, we allow ourselves to look inwards with greater compassion and humour, not taking ourselves so seriously and being depressed and self-critical all the time. When we lighten up, we see the joyfulness and playfulness of our spirit and we allow everything to simply unfold as it should. Blocks we were resistant to deal with suddenly don't seem so tough to face anymore. Blocks just fall away and we lighten, rising up, soaring in truth and flow, allowing ourselves to be and live our true identity of love and compassion, for self and for our twin flame.
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